Cheated on her and she fond out and left me now I miss her sometimes and want to get her back.
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you want her because you miss her? or you want her back because you realized you messed up and will never make that mistake and are prepared to prove yourself time and time again to be a trustworthy person she should want in her life?
you want her back? there's no guarantee but having been cheated on twice I can tell you what I needed... but never got. Full contrition. Fall on the sword. Eat crow. In other words apologize profusely. Tell her you made a huge mistake and you realize it. IF she takes you back you are going to have a long road of rebuilding trust in the relationship. That was the biggest issue I had. Lack of trust and those girls not being willing to work through the process of rebuilding it.
... so if you want her back, and that's a big decision you have to make, go to her and plea for a second chance. And then make sure she doesn't ever regret giving you that second chance0