Long story short, I've been seeing this one guy for about a month now. He found me on fb the other day and said that I looked really nice on my profile photo. Well, I told him if he wanted to he could just add me on fb. He seemed to ignore what I said and I didn't think much more about it.
As he was leaving to go abroad for 2 months (to see his family), we decided that we would stay in touch. He asked me how we should go about staying in contact and I asked him if he had Skype to which he replied yes. But he didn't offer to give me his Skype once again. He then suggested we could stay in touch through fb messages.
Anyway, so he wrote to me on fb the next day and I told him if he wanted to he could add me as a friend. He said "sure, if you really want to you can add me" so I sent him a friend request. An hour later, he said to me that he didn't really want to accept as "we aren't that close as friends" which made me upset.
We've been intimate, but I'm not close enough to be on his friend list? If he didn't want to add me on fb, then why suggest staying in touch through fb messages?
He's been gone for a couple of weeks now and I can see that he's added photos on there, but hasn't bothered to write to me anymore.
Am I right to be angry about this and should I dump him over this?
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He has a girlfriend that he's hiding from you. I can almost guarantee it. Either that, or he's not really considering what you have as a real relationship. More as a friends with benefits . Yes, what he's saying is as weird and off color as you feel that it is. If you're close enough to have sex, you're close enough for FB friends, unless he's hiding you.1