Okay, first off, she loves me. I know this. Thing is, I feel like I keep leading her on. But I can't help it, because I'm too scared to do anything about it. I don't know if it'll work, I don't know if I'll be a good boyfriend, and I don't freaking know if I love her back or not! I feel like a total jerk and I just can't figure out what to do. I asked someone before about just waiting it out and seeing what'll happen, and he told me it was a cowardly move and I'm just setting her up to fall, which I don't want to do because I care about her (as a good friend). Help me please, somebody! I'm confused and uncertain and getting really really scared and anxious!
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Seems you really wanna do the right thing, good for you. But unfortunately it seems you want to be with her but also want be with others. Maybe a friends with benefits type. Your not ready to date her. Because you know the way you are. So if I was you. I'd tell her you would like to remain friends untill you get yourself figured out because you don't really know what you want. Just be honest... she will respect you for it. Don't string her along. If you do, she will get attached and you won't be ready. Best of luck.1