First off, my boyfriend uses humor to cover for his wrongdoing. He's always been like this and it makes for a difficult time resolving problems that arise in our relationship. For instance, my birth control pill has caused me to gain a bit of weight in my stomach and thighs. For those who don't know, this weight is incredibly hard to lose and I have a few friends who have the same problem losing theirs. I work out with a trainer and my boyfriend knows how self-conscious I am about the gain. We went out to dinner with another couple who are close friends with us. I ordered a salad and my boyfriend said, "She has to now because she's a plumpy hahaha." My friend came to my reach by saying "I am too then. Weight is hard to lose." I was so embarrassed. When we got home I told him how I felt and his response was, "hahaha it was a joke, chill." Yes he laughs all the time in all the wrong situations. I was crying privately in my room when he walked in and said "haha someone's emotional." How do I deal?
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My girlfriend and I just reached our 3rd year anniversary this pass may. These passed 3 years has been a lot of change for the both of us. Me moving to other side of the country for college and to be near her. When we first met I was around 155 pounds and I never asked for her weight or do I ever plan to however what I'm trying to say is as our relationship became longer our body weight has changed. I lost 20 pounds due to me running cross country in college and she has gained a few pounds since finishing her last year of eligibility in soccer. What I'm trying to say is I loved her a few pounds lighter ago I still love her a few pounds more and I will still love her. Few more pounds later :). If my girlfriend was in your situation and I do joke a lot I mean a lot a lot.. And she's not the joking type and i learned my lesson after several incidents lol however she really gave me a beating emotionally physically and meantly what the heck spiritually too. But she made me realized how much of a dick I was to her at certain things that I thought where funny when in reality I was being cruel. So tell your boyfriend how you feel sit him down and don't break eye contact give him your GAME FACE girl. Let him know you're not taking anymore of this crap !0