So i can admit that i started it all. I was talking with this other girl and she was sending flirty things and i wanted to tell her to stop because i have a girlfriend. So then my girlfriend looked at my phone and i could not explain. After 2 days of not talking to me i went to her house to explain it. She kept calling me a cheater and all that and i kept saying that is not true and i even showed her the text saying i will block her an delete her which i did. So everything is ok. This past week my girlfriend was like "you don't love me", etc... all that stuff, she is on her period so I don't know if that is having to do a apart of this but i can't be in the same room with her and i finally said last night "i'm going to break up with you if you don't open your eyes", then she got all sad and cried. What in the world is going on here? She has never acted like this before.
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She just sounds really insecure, the thing is most smart women wouldn't believe a girl who you were texting just "randomly started flirting" and that you didn't have time to tell her to stop, first of all why are you continuing to talk to a girl who is flirting and it's pretty damn convenient that she sent those and you didn't have a chance to tell her to stop before your girlfriend saw it. I'm going to be honest, i'm not sure if I would really buy that story either lol.
I'm not saying that it's not possible that you're telling the truth about what happened but you put yourself in that situation and I don't think it's unreasonable of her to feel disrespected and insecure.
So now your girlfriend is probably doubting you, doubting that you love her, she probably thinks you like other women instead of her and on top of that she's on her period which makes our emotions 10 times worse, so imagine feeling that way times 10.
She's making it pretty obvious that she doesn't believe you at this point, so regardless of what actually happened, it feels like the trust is gone and relationships are way too dramatic without trust.0
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