A girl I've been seeing for month, it's been great. She has been there for me, bought me medicine, been on numerous dates, even cooked for me. So i'm like everything is cool. The minute I say I'm trying to make sure you're always happy and glad we dating, she texts me saying she's not ready for a formal relationship. So I'm like I understand, that's cool. Got a text last night saying she's happy she's in my life and I'm like I'm happy I'm in yours, even if we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. Then she tells me she's not friendzoning me though. Why the sudden change or whatever you wanna call it cause the minute I got the "not ready for a relationship" text, another girl is like she can't wait to get to know me
Girls, Confused as hell... not ready for a relationship, but not friend zoning me?
What Girls Said 3
There are a number of possibilities. I suggest maybe bringing it up and seeing what the problem is. If she gets defensive, drop it and move on.
Sometimes a girl doesn't want to put a label on things because there are other guys she's been going out with and she's not sure which one she wants. Or maybe she really isn't ready for a relationship and just wants to focus on herself1
This could help your situation, I think!0
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