So my girlfriend has just had a tragetdy happen in her family.
Her grandma died who she loved very much, and a few days later her aunt and two cousins were killed in a car crash, and her brother is in a coma.
She told me that she needs some time to get herself together because she feels like her life is crashing.
So I respected that and told her that I would give her space and that I love her so much and am there for here when every she needs me.
What would you guys think if I wrote her a well thought out letter, once a day, and emailed it to her every single day, telling her how much i love her, how im there for her, and some encouraging words to help her stay strong?
What would you think if your man did this for you.
A letter a day.
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It's a great idea because it allows you to remain present, but still respect her need for space, however, if you get no response to a letter or none of them or she doesn't want you to write, you'll have to try not to get affected by that. Grief and pain are difficult times for all of us, and people don't always respond the way you would or you'd think they would. It may be hard for you if you feel like you're writing all of this and she isn't responding in anyway. Best of luck to the both of you.0