There's a guy I've been dating for about three weeks now and it's a mutual feeling that it's getting pretty serious. He said he usually dates for a month or so before becoming exclusive typically. I really like him and he really likes me, but this other guy asked me out for dinner this week and I don't know if I should mention it. He told me that even though we aren't exclusive yet, that he prefers to be monogamous and date one girl at a time and would be upset if I were dating other men. He actually said, "I wouldn't be upset at you necessarily because we're not exclusive but that doesn't mean I wouldn't be upset and try and find the guy and beat him up" I assumed he was kidding. On one hand, I'd like to tell him to be honest and also as a reminder that I'm not waiting for him forever but on the other hand, I don't want it to backfire on me and him start dating other girls since I'm dating someone else. I don't really want to go out with this other guy but I'm trying to keep my options open til we're official
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since he told you that he prefers monogamy I think you should tell him. not telling him, while you are not obliged to do so, will fly directly in the face of one of the things he told you he likes in a relationship.
and if you don't really want to go out with this other guy, and like the guy you are currently dating why don't you tell this guy who asked you out that you are currently dating someone0