I sent a text saying that communication is a healthy part of a budding relationship, then we ended up having a heavy discussion. I said that signs of affection are very important to me so I stood by my question, but that I was sorry if I had seemed angry, and that putting pressure on him was not the fair thing to do. He said it was okay, but now I've not heard from him in 4 days. I have a feeling he might not be ready for something serious, though I know that I am. But it's oh so hard for me to keep myself busy and distracted! I keep thinking about what was said, and trying to figure out what we should do. I feel bad for getting so serious so quickly, but I also feel like I said what had to be said.
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Hey I just finished reading your dilemma here. I know what you are going through cause I've gone through the same thing a couple of times. I'm actually going through the same thing right now so therefore I can highly relate to what you are saying. I know what it feels like when you are getting to know someone who you feel strongly connected with. I know that it can fool you around that the guy might be feeling the same way you do. I actually said the same thing to the guy I'm dating cause he takes about 3 -4 days to talk to me. I understand that it is kind of soon to be telling the guys these things cause they tend to freak out, but what guys don't understand is that we expect them to show us interest from the beginning. Us girls get attach pretty quick and as it seems guys don't. We feel that when they take days without calling us is that they're not thinking about us or interested anymore. My advice to you is to have patience and if with time he doesn't changes his habits then you know from there that he isn't willing to compromise. That's the same advice I give to myself. Get to know him ask him question that will help you later decide if he's the guy you want to be in relationship with. Last but, not least let him look for you and wait for him to call you and see what he has to say when he do. I hope my advice help you with something.0