I met this nice girl on okcupid the dating site. First impressions seem pretty good, so I'm intending to ask her out 2 weeks later. (Cos I only just known her yesterday, I'll give a bit of buffer time to build some friendship online first)
Her profile indicates she's more conservative and old-fashioned, and that she's "the quiet girl in class". She said she did well in sports and studies in school, so I guess she's a model student of sorts. She's also really small and petite.
I don't know what she'll expect when I ask her out though. Does she expect a date, or hanging out to get to know each other better? Should I ask her what she wants, or take the lead and adjust according to her response?
She seems perfect and I want this to be long-term, I dont want to screw this up haha..
- A dateVote A
- Hanging out to know each otherVote B
- Others (please explain :))Vote C
She was nervous and surprised that it was so fast, and said she would prefer outings until things were official. A few weeks and a few outings later, we became a couple. :D
As for the original question, it seems like hanging out is the safest and most agreeable option haha.