I've been on here for a while now and I keep reading about guys asking why girls date older guys. So why do guys keep asking? I mean I'm dating a 42 year old and we met when I was 19 and been talking every sense now I'm 20
Why do guys keep asking why girls date older guys?
What Guys Said 10
Well, I know that if I was into older girls - turning this around - then it'd probably be for reasons of maturity, more than anything. I've had a really hard time with relationships with girls younger than me because they're usually really immature and the relationship dies off really fast because of it.1
I've personally never asked because the answer I read is usually always the same.
1. their maturity is what I am looking for
2. where they are in life suits me more than guys my own age
3. I just like older guys0
I don't think they like the maturity inference.0
Pretty cool. :)0
Guys ask because it's peculiar. This seems like a loaded question.0
Because so many young guys don't get pussy and are jealous of the guys who do. Then they start playing the "Why'd she pick him, he's [old/fat/short/dumb/a badboy]" self-pity game because it's easier to blame girls for their social failures rather than improving themselves. The lack the balls and self-awareness to get what they need, so they just pout. A lot of it is based in a sense of entitlement that breeds jealousy of what others have.0
Guys maybe asking because they think you have daddy issues because you date guys who are older enough to be your dad!!!
Out maybe because they feel jelly..!0
Because its not a typical thing, I mean its like, people don't understand what the possible reason some young women or men could desire to be in a relationship with someone that could be their parent... Could you explain why for me?0
LOL I love it when someone young says they "met when she/he was [age]" when she/he could just say "we met last year". Anyways, this guy is old enough to be your dad. You can't socialize with people your age?0
What Girls Said 2
they probably dont understand what older guys have that younger guys dont.1
Its because there is such an age gap. They wonder why a person your age would want to date someone so much older than you. They can technally be your father! Its like what does a 20 year old have in common with a 42 year old?0
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