Girl I'm dating doesn't text first anymore?

So I just started dating a girl that I crushed on in elementary school. So we've been on a couple real dates but main have just hung out together at her place or mine, watching movies, cuddling, etc. I try to talk to her every day, mainly by texting. It always ends up me texting first and I dont know why. We've been dating around 3 weeks now. I dont want to come off as desperate or anything texting first everytime. We suprisingly haven't had sex yet, but we kiss intimately every date/hangout. What are your thoughts on this?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • You can text first as long as it's relevant and not too often. Maybe sometimes wait for her to say something instead... and never send a second message without a reply to the previous one

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What Girls Said 2

  • well if you have kissed.. and made out.. then she should start making the effort too.. next time wait for her text..

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  • she's losing interest.

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What Guys Said 2

  • I have been in this exact situation bro.

    Best thing to do is ask. Just start a convo and any time you want just ask ' why don't you message me first (just curious)?' Or something along those lines bro then you'll get and answer

    When I asked this the girl just said 'I don't want to bother you or annoy you' :)

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  • think she's either losing intrest in you or you text to much i would give texting a days rest and do something different go for a date and do a activity that you both won't normally do that you can have a laugh about.

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