So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and it started out great but now we barely talk, and when we do we don't say much or have nothing to talk about. We used to be able to talk about anything and everything, all the time, but now we dont. How do I rekindle that spark we used to have and help make our conversations more interesting?
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FYI this happens in a lot of relationships. Don't think it's going to get better with some other guy because, chances are, it's not. Just a heads up.
The key here is to not get weird about the situation. Don't get resentful, don't get angry, don't get upset, don't feel uninteresting... so on and so forth. Just let it all go because none of that is the real reason. Just talk. Go do shit. Don't just sit around watching TV and expect to have super enlightening conversation. Go on a hike and just mention the most inane things... notice the flora and fauna, comment on them, etc. It's just regular conversation, really. Don't think too hard about it because that's when you start tripping up.2