I've been on many dates in my life for the most part guys have been rude and weird but in the past year or so there has been a different kind of thing. This isn't with every guy but it's with just some they will talk to me very weird.
They speak very low and literally talk without projecting energy. Again I'd happened in the past but it's been a while. A lot of guys online and people in general are energy vampires or takers.
I'm a very positive person and for some reason I always end up being a victim of these types of people. So I just met up with a guy to go to a restaurant. Before we met I called him and he sounded very normal and he projected normally- lots of energy. I almost feel comfortable because he was from another town. But then when we went and sat down and began talking to me he was almost whispering and he was talking while holding energy and it was very weird and not normal. These people are intentionally doing this and it's very strange. Now I am very positive high-energy person and I've been told but I have a lot of positive energy and it could be overwhelming. But this guy was just acting weird like he was kind of getting aggressive with the wrapper and at what he was talking to me he was literally almost whispering and I asked him to speak up. At this point I thought oh god not again I'm knocking to sit here and deal with this crap.
I asked him if he was nervous and he said no and I said he was talking very low and he said he's a low talker which is a complete lie because I can tell that he's actually a loud talker. These weirdos will put on a façade and speak very low and it's so draining I can't even sit through it. I also interact with tons of people daily and no one does this. Only five to seven males I've met online have done this and they were all into spirituality and one told me it's not that they're taking my energy they don't want me to have my own energy n want to drain me. It's crazy and he did it too exact same thing-
Otherwise I would've been drained. Does anyone get this energy taking thing these people do and why they seem to have this strange hate for me tho I'm positive and nice and act so weird
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I am just throwing this out there. Is it possible they speak low so that you will lean forward in the perfect position to receive a kiss? Could it be that the aggressivity is somehow a trick taught by coaches or players just as the ignoring or negging. I mean, it sounds as ridiculous to me as negging does.1