Hey guys! So i told my best friend that i am in love with him... we have slept together before and both admitted to feelings and such in the past... anyways so i told him and he said he understood how i felt and i could relax about being worried it would ruin our friendship, that he is my friend and he's not going to just dip out and that this isn't a normal situation and he isn't trying to lead me on and that when he's home from work in a few weeks that we will have a few drinks and talk. I told him we didn't need to talk that i understood he doesn't see me that way and he says " lets have a drink and talk when im home!" And i said that it was fine i said what i needed to, no need to talk and he said " will i want to just but not over text i hate that"
hiw do i take that?
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The problem with text is that it strips away all nonverbal communication. Fuck you can mean a billion different things depending on HOW you say it and if those two words can mean so many different things imagine the potential for confusion from a whole deep conversation over text. I think he wants to talk in person so you can completely understand what he means instead of reading it and filling in all the nonverbal things yourself. Cause if your an anxious/insecure/depressive person everything he says has the potential to be heard in a negative way in a text.0