I'll sum this up as easy and in as much details as possible without droaning on.
Been dating about 3 weeks
She cheated on me with her ex in the 1st week. She breaks up with me? we get back togeather next day.
things go well untill a few days ago she tells me her ex kissed her, she breaks up with me again, next day we are back togeather.
By cheating I she said she kissed him, not too sure what sort of kiss it was I didn't ask.
(She breaks up with me because she doesn't want to keep hurting me)
I forgive her both times and move on but my trust for her goes the 1st time, I start to trust her again then she does it again, so at this point I have no trust for her.
we meet today bearing in mind I don't trust her at the moment and I do the stupid thing of looking though her phone... I know I shouldn't have done it, so please don't give me a lecture on that... But I notice that she has told her, ex, ex that she loves him. So to sum it up she loves me and two other guy's probably more. I'm at a loss I don't know what to do. I don't want to end it because I really do like her.. but at the same time I don't want to be an option. I don't want to keep worrying whos she seeing/ meeting when I'm at work. I just really don't know anymore.
Looking for your opinon. Just don't tell me looking though her phone was wrong. Because I know that...
Unfortunately I'm the type of person that you can screw over 1 million times and I'll still be there for the people I care about. I agree the relationship is messed up and it's only been 3 weeks and as time goes on it will become harder, but how do I end it with her. After having a good day out today
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First of all, how old is your girlfriend? She seems to have as much sense as a middle school girl, she's a liar, a cheat, and a flirt. Basically she admitted she kissed another guy, she gave you permission not to trust her. Why you took her back I don't know, that's between you two. Then , you started having doubts about what type of girl she is, so curiously look in her phone. You probably subconsciously knew what you would find, and you found it. So now you know she's a serial flirt and cheater and she ENJOYS talking to multiple guys at the same time. I'll give you a hint, leave & don't look back. This girl has some issues, she's getting some type of fulfillment by talking to a lot of guys and will cause you more heartache down the road. Who loves 3 guys at once? I know people say it's happened but in my opinion that's just selfish. If you're single and you're trying to meet people, then be single until you meet that ONE person who will make you happy. Don't just lead all kinds of guys on because you thrive on the attention. There's something majorly wrong there. Don't feel bad, if it wasn't for you snooping you wouldn't know there was a 3rd party and that was the closure you needed. Move on.0