I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We don't live together. We are in our 30's. We had an argument over something I heard that alluded to him seeing someone else. I asked him about it via text and he said he would email me but it might be a while before he can get to it. After hearing nothing for 3 days, I got upset and told him not to bother emailing me. He has not talked to me since. It has been over a week. I have apologized repeatedly and no response. I am devastated. How can a man who said he loves me ignore me like this. It hurts so bad. He won't even tell me to leave him alone or we are broken up. It is hard to give him the space he probably needs because I feel if we don't talk, he will forget about me. I am confused and don't know what to do. What if he never talks to me again?
Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
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Well, it's hard to say what is going on with this guy but you should rule out some of the freaky possibilities, like if he is dead (he wouldn't talk to you then), or if his plane went down near a tropical island and he now has only has a volley ball named 'wilson' for a friend. Also there is the brief visit to jail among some of the other bizarre things that could happen. So make sure he is alive and well and got your message first.
If he is OK and he is just outright ignoring you (which is a real dick thing to do to anyone), you'll have to move on or suffer a non-communicator as a mate. You might still be able to get a few things out of the relationship at that point. Analyzing things like whether or not you two had conflicting goals or fought a lot might provide additional insight.
But anyway, first thing is first. See if he isn't in the morgue.1
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