Dating a guy who wants to pay for everything?

have you ever dated someone who pays for pretty much everything?

So i have been on four dates with this guy and every date he has payed for everything... i offered to pay three of those times, but he keeps insisting to pay and he wants to "take care of me"... and we are going on a date this weekend and he has plans to take care of that date too..

I can't help but feel a but uncomfortable with the situation because i feel like im freeloading and that im more of a burden more the anything... so what do i do with a guy like this?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • seeems like he's an old-fashioned guy since he sticks in those ways... did u xplain to him "a guy shouldn't be da one who'll always pay"?

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    • kinda... i told him i want equality and its not fair for him to pay for everything in addition it makes me uncomfortable because i feel like im not contributing.. but he keeps telling me that he really wants to do it.. so maybe i should let him?

    • eh ok... if he's stubborn u cannot change his ways :p

      but one u should return da favor... guess he should accept it for once :D

What Guys Said 4

  • What if you offered to cook him a meal for your next dinner date?

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    • sounds like a good idea! i should actually do that :)

  • Just show appreciation. He's either really old fashioned or is fearing that he has nothing else to bring to the table.

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  • Ask him out on the next date and tell him up front that you're paying.

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    • i guess i could try..

  • Some people are just like that. If I invite anyone out I'm paying. Male or female

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What Girls Said 1

  • i think its awesome!

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    • the first date was... but after that i just started feeling guilty lol

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