For starters we're goin mini golfing and met online, so we haven't actually met in person. But I also know him sort of through other friends. But enough with the background info.
Do you guys like how a girl smells? Pay attention to what she wears? Like I'm really nervous and I'll probably not be the conversation starter at first, is that a problem?
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To be honest, I don't like 99% of the perfumes that women wear. They generally are worn in too large quantities giving off an overbearing scent and they're usually some 15 year old fruity smell or something. If she smells clean, I'll love how she smells. However, if she has a scent that she wears a lot and it's mild but distinctly her's, I will, over time, grow to love that smell. Not to sound creepy, but sometimes I would just bury my face in her shirt and take a deep breath. But that's for way into a relationship. Sorry, getting a little sidetracked... ^^" Haha
I do pay attention to what she wears, but it's not like I'm thinking "Man, I wish she wouldn't have worn that top with those shoes... smh." If she just wears something that looks nice and still comfortable, I'm totally down with that. If she looks particularly nice in something, I'll notice it and remember it. However, most guys aren't going to know "what she did differently" to get from looking great yesterday to looking fantastic today.
Nope, not a problem. Best solution is to just try to your best to calm yourself in whatever way you can. Just have fun and you'll be totally fine. :)
As far as conversation starters, it's not a big deal. I mean, you'll be playing mini golf, so you'll also have something to do, as well, so that you're not just sitting across from each other at a table where conversation is "the whole point" so to speak. When you've got an activity that you can partake in, it takes the weight off of conversation emphasis. You can start or stop conversations really just whenever. Just relax. You don't have a lot to worry about. I'm sure you'll be fine. :) Good luck and have fun!!0