Hey people! Right here's my dilemma!
I've been texting this girl for a while now, but I feel she's giving me mixed signals, which leads me to not know whether I'm coming or going!
We we will text most days and all is well, the conversation flows and it's all good, however she tends to send short replies, I've asked her out on a few dates but she works a lot, pretty much 5 days out of 7, and when she's off, im
workin evenings! So can't make plans!
She keeps saying that she is going to let me take her out just not sure when she is free! So to me this would sound she's not really that interested, however I've dropped by her workplace a few times and we've hung out, and she has always text me afterwards saying she gets shy and nervous, which leads me to think she is interested?
its got me all confused!
Girls - do you tend to play hard to get and if so, does persistence pay off? Or should I just call it quits and move on?
How do you win someone over who is suing hard to get?
Advice ia appreciated!
- Move onVote A
- Keep tryingVote B
Most Helpful Guy
The good news is that I think you're on her radar, but you're not the main blip. A girl should always make room and time, and genuinely be excited for the guy she wants expressing interest in her.
It certainly doesn't mean to give up though. Too many guys give up, or get intimidated by other men in her life. It's an unfortunate part of todays society where women have women coming at them from all angles, including online.
What you need to do is do something awesome that highlights what seperates you from them and make her notice you.
My opinion? Write her a letter. A handwritten letter. Express yourself, keep it light hearted but sweet, and put your cards on the table, but not your dignity. Put some time and energy into her and you'll be one step ahead of everyone else.1