Started talking to this girl in Novmeber and we were casual friends, would hook up every now and then. And recently I asked her if she wanted to start dating. She said that i was "too social" and that frightned her cause she didn't want to be second best. She mostly stays at home or hangs out with her parents, I like to go out enjoy the city I live in go to restaurants sporting events etc. I am very outgoing but I hardly see that as being a valid reason to make me undateable.
Most Helpful Girl
Doesn't make you undateable in general, just makes the two of you not a good match. If she likes to stay in most of the time and you'd rather be out most of the time, that's gonne cause a lot of strain. She'd probably prefer to stay friends with you than end up resenting each other.0
Most Helpful Guy
I do see it as a valid reason cause when you want to go out she wants to stay at home. You have different ways to entertain yourself, and that's gonna be a problem in the future cause in order to spend time together both will have to do stuff you don't enjoy, so you'll associate being with her as something boring cause you'll be staying at home, and she'll associate being with you with being uncomfortable in sports bar or club.1