Guys, imagine if you met a guy who knew nothing about girls, dating, or relationships. What would your advice be to them?

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And they're 18

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  • I would tell them to don't over think it. Just take a deep breath and calm down. They're human beings with fears, concerns, hopes and dreams, just like everyone else. They're not complicated to understand like everyone always makes them out to be. It just takes patience and listening to them. That's something that most people don't have. However, as long as you take your time and try to understand them and see where they're coming from in things, you'll do just fine. There will be things along the way that won't make sense that they do, but that's part of growing and learning to get along with someone that doesn't act the same way or think the same way as us. Sometimes there are painful struggles because of the differences, but other times those differences will bring the two of you closer together and make the relationship fulfilling and worth it. Above all, however, stay away from women that play games. You should always avoid them. Also, in order to make sure that arguments and such stay minimal, figure out what things make you really emotional or that you're really sensitive about. Does talking about racism or politics or feminism make you extremely uncomfortable? When you talk about them with others, do you tend to argue out of just emotions rather than facts? If so, figure out what they are and look for someone who agrees with you in those areas. Some of the most damaging arguments are ones where it's just out of emotions and on topics that both people are extremely sensitive about. However, don't be afraid to have both some differences and some things in common. Having differences will give you two things to share with each other. Having things in common will give the two of you things to enjoy together. Finally, and most importantly (as cliche as it sounds) be yourself. Do NOT try to fake someone else. If you do, then they fell in love for the fake you and, if you ever tried to marry them, they would expect you to be the person they fell in love with and not you. You'd have to fake yourself for the rest of your life to be happy. And, if they found out that you were faking yourself, they'd feel lied to and you'd be unhappy because you wouldn't be able to be yourself without upsetting them. Find someone that is okay with you. If you do, the relationship will be incredibly rewarding because you'll have found someone that actually appreciates your uniqueness and interests which is something quite special, indeed.

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What Guys Said 6

  • They're just people. Go interact with them. You can't just read about them and just suddenly know what to do. They're all different.

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  • Yes, they do indeed have cooties

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  • Be yourself. Every guy is different, you can't just tell them what's what and expect them too do so.. but being YOURSELF is definitely something everyone can do.. so do it.

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  • Oh boy, where do I even start. Just jump in and you'll learn how to swim

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  • Stop looking online for advice and go talk to a girl...

    Is what I would say. Just remember to be confident, even if you are not.

    Good luck, have fun, try not to get killed.

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  • be yourself and keep it real.

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