Hi guys. I'm a 25 year old guy who has never had a girl friend. I'm starting to think it might not ever happen. I've only ever had one night stands. Girls what do you look for in a guy my age? What is/isn't attractive?
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Well, honestly looks is the first thing I notice. How he dresses, how he is groomed, how he presents himself.
The second thing I notice, when I talk to him, is confidence. Eye contact is especially important. How interested he seems to be in me, how pleasurable his overall tone is with me (is he gentle and enticing, or shy and more secretive?).
Third thing is interests, that's when it begins to become more personal. Does he like the same things I like, and if not, does he respect my interests at least?
Conduct is the MOST IMPORTANT aspect. Be a gentleman! If I strike up a conversation with a guy, and he turns out to be a sleaze bag, I drop him real quick and pull a 180 on that whole ordeal. Women don't appreciate misbehaved men without manners and respect.
So be sweet and attentive, make lots of eye contacts and smiles, and she's all yours :)0