How would you like to be asked out? I am trying to bring up the courage to ask this guy out. The thing is, we don't see each other that often. Do you think he'll find it weird? My fear is that he'll tell all of our mutual friends and it will be awkward. What should I say?
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Question before I answer. When you say you don't see each other often, how often is often?
However, in most cases, there is no harm in asking a guy out. The worst he can say is no, and friends usually draw a line of things they won't push you about. When asking a guy out, the most difficult part is gaining courage yourself.
1.) Confidence -- Shy can be cute, but just make sure you go up to him and ask him personally. Not a text or email. Also, please don't be like my one friend who was too shy to ask a girl out on a date, so he invited her and me as an awkward third wheel.
2.) Being direct -- Make sure he knows it is just the two of you going. You don't want him to feel tricked into thinking it was a group. Be sincere and tell him what you want.
3.) Talk to him alone -- No friends around him.
That's all I got. If I think of more I'll post them. Just remember that you can do this! It won't be awkward regardless. It is better to go and get rejected for a week of regret than never ask him and have a lifetime of regret.1
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