So, I've been feeling terribly ugly and disgusted with myself. I feel like no guys want me because I am not pretty enough to their standards. I feel as if all my friends have these guys they talk to or like them and/or date them, while I am the ugly one standing off. I am usually the ugly one in my group of friends, not sure if it's because of the way I look or because I don't have the body that they want. My older sister tells me it's just because some guys are shy and don't know how to approach me. But I feel like she's just trying to make me feel better. Any opinions, be hones too please.
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STOP RIGHT THERE.
1) DON'T compare yourself to others.
2) You're ARE beautiful.
3) Being single doesn't necessarily mean you're undesirable.
I know how you feel. There was a time I was completely self conscious because I had always been told how ugly I was on the daily. I've never dated anyone as well. It's honestly okay.
When you arise in the morning, look into the mirror and tell yourself "you are beautiful, smart, and desirable." Whether you believe it or not doesn't matter. If you do this every single day, you'll eventually start to believe it, and that's a promise.
Also, your sister may not be wrong. There are people so attractive that everyone feels intimidated and like they're not good enough, so who knows.1
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