Do Guys like Girly Girls, or Tomboys? or a mix of both?
is it a turn on if a girl likes things like skateboards, cars, and music (heavy metal, techno etc), but still dresses like a girl and likes makeup and things?
or do guys want a total girly girl? (cheerleader type)
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I think most men would agree with me that tomboys are the BEST!
Okay, here is why men like tomboys compared to the high maintenance girls. THE HIGH MAINTENANCE PART! No man wants a high maintenance girl, they're too much work and are never satisfied no matter how much the guy does for her. It's an endless battle that we know we won't win.
Tomboys can relate to us. You all have a little guy in yourselves and are down to earth. You don't bitch and complain, you know how to have fun, and your more understanding. You also understand the male mind better than girly girls.
Furthermore, what guy doesn't want a girl that can play a sport with him, get her hands dirty, or just kick his butt in a video game. Yes, we secretly like the challenge. You also don't spend hours on make up or your nails, you can say you going out and be out the door in seconds like us. We don't have to wait around hours for you to get prettied up.
As you stated, your also less judgmental and self critical. You don't complain about your defects, you embrace them. No one likes a person that will drag them down.
So yes, tomboys are far more better than girly girls. So what if your not a girly girl, tomboys can relate to men a lot more than they ever could and that's a good thing! Communication is key in any relationship, and if you can communicate your golden.
Hope this helps you. Don't change and become a girly girl to get a guy. Be yourself, and wait for a guy that likes you FOR YOU.2