Okay so I was meant to go on a date tonight but I had to go to the hospital because I kept getting belly aches. Anyway the hospital has told me I have an illness that can stop me having kids I am abit stressed from as it Is pretty bad. He don't want to talk to me anymore? Also I couldn't meet him another night because I was very ill with flu due to this pid thing I couldn't move out of my bed and he got moody about that and then this today. How would you react to this
Most Helpful Guy
Some guys might be offended and assume you blew them off.
I think it all depends on how you told him and if you tried to make it up to him.
If you were honest with him and he still reacts this way, I'd say he's the selfish type. A guy that really likes you would give you the benefit of the doubt, find an alternative and try to understand. If you're being pretty secretive/indirect, then he'll assume you're lying to get out of going out with him and would get upset.
My reaction would depend on the sincerity in your voice when you told me you couldn't make the date, gave me an adequate reason why and made a genuine attempt to reschedule the date.
When it comes to medical issues, I don't think a date is entitled to know all the details, that's your private life, but a certain degree of information would at least give him no reasons to doubt you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Just tell him your feeling poorly. I'm sure he'll understand. He probably thought you ditched him.0