He says he fully trusts me to not go to far (I'm 13) but he doesn't trust any guy whatsoever to not want to go too far. He says guys just want to get into a girls pants in 8th grade? Guys, is that all you thought about in 8th grade? I'm sure there are a lot of respectful guys but my dad thinks they are all the same?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, all I'm gonna say is, when I was 13, there was a lot of things that my parents told me which I considered wrong at that time, but when I got older, I realized that they were right.4
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You are a bit too young to be worrying about it. Maybe it's just different generations, but at that age I still played with my dolls. For now, I suggest you concentrate on your studies and hobbies. Don't rush into adulthood, it's not as cool as the society leads you to believe.
There are plenty of nice guys out there. I had a whole bunch of male friends growing up and they never tried anything. Admittedly I didn't have any "boyfriends" until early twenties.
Your dad sounds a bit overprotective but you are his little girl and that's totally understandable. I wish my dad was alive to tell those things to me... Good luck.2