We have been dating for a good 11 months, he went back few weeks ago, and there is a couple of hours in time difference. We did however had a few minor arguments and he said i complained a lot as he was away and we were spending less time texting and calling sometimes on every other day. Our last conversation was normal and he was sweet. Am i being paranoid that he's losing interest and dumping me or he just too busy with family and celebration for eid. Should i be worried? I didn't want to text as i was waiting for him to initiate first, but i did saw him online on other social media for awhile. He did not to text much in general, but four days is the longest. How long should i wait? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. We are both 24, attending university and while he's away i would spend time with my family or read more but i am worried about him being distant, he will be back in a week. I am afraid that its over and he does not have the courage to tell me.
Most Helpful Guy
Lot of people will leave all sudden like that and go back to their own country, it doesn't mean he's not interested in you it could be he is busy with his family you seem clingy no offense and need a man up your *** 24/7 .. I highly doubt that it's over between you two.0
Most Helpful Girl
I have a husband out in Egypt and there are a few days in between that he is busy with family and with Eid Here, dear, the feasting and family keep this busy time flowing and Going. However, he was On for me yesterday and he says Everything is fine now with things calming down.. I have had to endure this for over 4 years now.
However, if you have seen Him 'Online on other social media for awhile,' he could very well be taking some time from you and just doing his own free bird Thing... With spending time texting and calling less right at the moment.
You say it has been 'Four days,' and being you both are this supposed birds of a feather, I find him a bit inconsiderate leaving you home to wonder and worry with not even a peep.
If you don't hear from him after this weekend, text him yourself and try and get to the bottom of things. He could have talked your own problems over with the family and maybe they gave him some advice which might also make you want to... Ask him if things are alright in Denmark?
When he Does come back and you see some 'Distance,' you both need to get on the same page so your relationship doesn't end up Going... South.
Good luck. xx1
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