I just got out of a really bad break up 10 months ago with my ex fiancée/daughter's father. I was in love but he got so brainwashed he thinks I was taking advantage of him, okay I moved one. Since then I've been dating a lot and even have a Friend with Benefit. I don't feel ready for a relationship, I'm scared of the whole serious thing now! I'm dating a guy about two moths ago we both both working on our career, he's sweet and nice caring; our office is sort of next to each other different building we see each other everyday. We just wanted to hangout at first now he want to go serious I just got so frustrated at him since then' he thinks I'm always mad at him. I don't know how to stop this. I don't want to go serious, I'm afraid of guy, sorta think (not gay) all of them are asshole or doushed, which is not true. I developed an attitude with everyone since the break up, I am very defensive and protective, I mostly think I'm just a smart young women that's knows what she wants and confident, somehow I also feel like people are pulling away from me. I know I'm a sweet person caring loving deep inside, I don't know how am I going to be that sweet person again, and what should I tell this guy that want me serious? I've been so confused lately.
I can't make my mind about dating or being In a serious relationship?
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so u got mad at him coz he wanted to go serious? i guess this has to do coz u r afraid of guys as u said... and u probably believe they might end up being just like yer X fiancee... seems like he has good intentions... i guess u should be open for new chances and don't throw 'em away.
but... fuck... it's really asinine dat he broke up wid u if u have a daughter together... and u r not alone, i've read MANY similar posts... it really sucks!!0
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