So I've been dating this guy for like 2 years but he lives quite far so I only see him like once every two weeks. We're really happy when we're together and right now we're better than ever but he's weird.
He recently said he loves but then will still say things like 'don't call me, I call you' and won't let me go to see him, he comes to me. To me that's messed up.
But I know he's not cheating and I don't question his intentions but I just don't get why he still feels the need to be a bit 'distant'. We also still haven't made it an official relationship after all this time but he acknowledges the commitment? I just don't know what his problem is, any ideas?
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No give him a chance. It doesn't matter that he calls you and not the opposite it's the same difference. Im exactly like him I tell my girlfriend that I dont want her calling me instead let me call her. There are reasons for this
a) I want to control the convo And end it and there's a opportunity to end the call.
B) I dont want people thinking im whipped
C) he can call when he's not busy whereas you may call when he is
D) when my girlfriend calls she speaks more then when I call.1