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That will probably fade after you are out of high school. I've never liked a popular girl, not once. They're either whiney, or bratty, or spoiled, or bitchy, or they've done the whole goddamn football team, or they're liberal, or their asses hang out of their shorts, or they think they're the hottest thing walking, or they have the IQ of a fencepost, or they drink, or do drugs, or hate the police, military, guns, etc. Need I go on? The girl I have a crush on has a good amount of friends, but I wouldn't say she's populer. She's cute, smart, kinda goofy, and generally fun to be around. That's what I want. If find a popular girl who bucks the trend I'm seeing, then fine, but I haven't seen one yet. A lot of guys your age are immature and the want whoever they're told the hottest girl is with the most social status. They don't use their own eyes or brains. I once heard someone say, "My friends can think they're a gargoyle, but if I find them attractive, that's all I care about."
Yeah, a lot of guys your age think that, some don't though. Look for those guys. Plus, the whole obsession with popularity will fade once you are a little older.0