Hi everyone. I usually really like chubby guys with beards that tend to be a lot taller than me. I consider myself to be pretty cute with a great personality but every time I try to date any of these types of guys they always reject me. Why do you think that is? I am very outgoing, so I try to get to know the guys I like, but they usually don't even want to be friends with me. What am I doing wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
Why don't poor people like other poor people? Because being around rich is more desireable.
You can't assume because someone is out of shape because they are attracted to out of shape.
You might think you have a better chance with them because they likely have less options and that might be true.
One idea is get in better shape and then you will open your options as well to the full spectrum. If you choose a chubby guy - he will fall all overhimself for you then esp if you are in shape.
Its just basic human attraction. In general, people prefer fit people not necessarily someone that 'looks like them'. That makes no sense.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think you're just meeting the wrong guys.
I think like any guy, chubby men have their type (s) also.
Just because someone has extra weight doesn't mean they will automatically be drown to chubby women.
I've seen chubby men try hard to get women that have a opposite body type.0