When I text a guy to hang out, they always say ' i can't make it because of this, this and this, but how about ______"
Like why not just say I'm busy, how about ______, why do they feel like they need to explain or account for everything?
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Actually, why do girls NOT feel the need to explain?
Whenever I offer a ton of explanation as to why I can't do something with someone, it's because I wanna let them know that I would spend time with them if I could.
When you just say "I'm busy" it just sounds like an excuse or a lie.2