Most Helpful Girl
Do not be drowned with her problems. You need to stay as sane one.
Just be there for her. Try to help when she needs.
You are not worthless. She is lucky to have someone. Neither of you is worthless.
Make sure she is seeing a professional.
It is important.0
Most Helpful Guy
Depression is a nasty thing to deal with. But when it's your partner, it's even more so since you have no power to control it. Like fauchelevent said, you do have to put your health first. With that said, try to always be in a good mood when you're around her. People's social programming is to mirror the behavior of those they spend time with. If she's depressed, it makes you depressed. However, if you are excited, happy, and encouraging, this will have an extremely positive effect on her. If she's the one you truly love and want to be with, help her become the person you know her to be. She still has to make that choice so only do what you can. Good luck and stay positive.0