You know people always say 'just be yourself.' But for some people being yourself just isn't enough and that person may need to change something about themselves before they try dating.
Agree or disagree?
- I agree, sometimes being yourself just isn't enough to date anyoneVote A
- I disagree, being yourself is always good enoughVote B
- it depends (please say)Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
I think you have to aim to be your best self. That doesn't mean trying to overhaul your entire personality, it means being aware of your strengths (and hopefully enhancing them) and at least admitting to your weaknesses (if not trying to improve them).
Like I want to show more passion for hiking and traveling and reading, because that's what I love! I develop my opinions to be better-informed and more reasonable. I strive to be more confident and selfless, because those are my weaknesses, but I won't force myself to be anything I'm not. I won't force myself to be falsely confident and repress my feelings as a result.
If that makes any sense.1