Guys just a heads up. If your thinking of dating someone who has kids. Think twice. Think what is the possibility that you will marry this person. Think. Ask yourself, do I have the toughness it takes to raise someone else's kids? What drama will I have to endure w/an ex. What's our time together going to be if I want this relationship to work? Consider the ages of these kids. Old good, young not so good. These are key questions you must ask yourself. Because things my start off fine. Than they take a turn. The kids don't lesson to you or the parent. The time together gets shorter and shorter. Than what trouble will be lent to that?
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I totally agree with you and I will not date a man with young kids. It really does cause a lot of "concerns" for some people. I have an 18 and 15 year old and I have come accustom to the bit of freedom that I finally earned. Dealing with a boyfriends' 2 or 3 year old? Not me, I am not trying to be a mother or mother figure or babysitter or nanny...all over again. I am out of the stage of wet ones and snotty noses and I won't feel bad about it. It's a big responsibility dating someone with small kids and I don't want anything to do with it therefore, I only date guys with kids around my kids age or guys that don't have any and don't want any. Well, that's how I feel about dating with small children!0