Why does he threaten to break up with me?
I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost six months. All of a sudden he keeps threatening to break up with me...
If you don't do _______, I'm going to break up with you.
If you leave, I'm going to break up with you.
If you hang up, I'm going to break up with you.
This has really got me wondering why he says it...
Does he really want to break up with me?
Why is he saying it.
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Either call him out on it or say "okay, go ahead then" because I doubt that he actually would. I've tried that stuff on my girlfriend once when I was mad and as soon as she said "okay, do it then" I felt like the biggest idiot.
Or like the other guy said, he's looking for an excuse to end it and making it seem like "your fault" since you were the one to hang up so you chose it. And if that's the case then you're better off without him anyway, because that's way too controlling.