My boyfriend plays a sport that COMPLETELY turns me off... He is a very nice guy, he's cute, great personality but then i find out that he fences and im not saying its a bad thing, i just dont find it completely attractive. What do i do about this?
Most Helpful Guy
I have a question for you: Who the fuck cares?
Sports don't exist to turn you on, nor do guys play them for that reason. We do it because WE want to. We don't need the approval of a teenaged girl.
Now, what do you do about it? You have two options. Option 1 is to do nothing and let your boyfriend do whatever sport he wants. Option 2 is to leave him so he can find a girl that wouldn't complain about the sports he plays.3
Most Helpful Girl
Well, I used to be like you. I used to be turned off if I found out a guy swam for a sport. But then I started to get really healthy and go to the gy and everything. Now, even if a guy was a swimmer or did fencing, it's a huge tick on him. To me, any interest in something physical is a good thing because I have been with men with no interest in sport and health. Anything is better than nothing. If he likes fencing, he's more likely to want to do other active things with you. Like going to the gym together, hiking together etc. I love a guy who's go hiking with me and who could keep up!1