I don't mean just sexually I'm talking about financially as well. I don't know if it's just me but I'm running into a lot of guys who don't have jobs, make women pay for dates, won't give them car rides (they don't even have cars), mooch off any money she makes, and still cheats and lies. Most of my friends are very hardworking women who support themselves and i see them getting with the above type of guy, and they're not happy with the situation but they seem to tolerate that anyways. An example would be my friend has her own house and car, she's 18, and her boyfriend is like 23 and doesn't have anything , no job and he gets mad at her for having her own house and everything. Totally irrational.
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The economy is definitely bad right now and there are quite a lot of unmotivated people on both sides of the fence. I know if I was dating someone like that and saw that she was unmotivated and not actively looking for a job I'd dump her overtime. I know a guy who had a somewhat similar case with a girl who basically lived at the guy's place and she got so lazy that she wouldn't even do her own laundry and he got fed up overtime and dumped her.
But overall I feel like it varies with the situation. Some girls I'd just shake my head at if they kept dating a bum like you described but others do fall for guys when they are stable and they get fired out of nowhere and they really do struggle. If it's a guy who plays video games in his mom's basement with no intention of finding a job though and the girl just whines and whines but doesn't dump him she's just as pathetic though.0