OK... so in the past week I have tried dating.
Turns out 2 of the guys I was talking to, never met up with (online dating) has a girlfriend.
I dont get whats wrong with me. A guy has never committed to me and only me, im not ugly but im not the prettiest thing ever.
Why does this always happen to me? A guy never takes the time to get to know me. He either 1. Moves on or 2. Has a girlfriend and is just flirting with me...
even my SISTERS HUSBAND was flirting with me!! what the hell? :/ any advice?
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You are an attractive young lady and you will have men, especially online, want to simply hook up with you. Some of these men have girlfriends and even wives. If they know that you want them to get to know you, that translates to them that they will not get sex from you easily. so, if they do not show up, you are probably lucky.
If you are having trouble meeting men online, I would say you need to look at a better class of men, and even get out into the real world to meet men. The fact that you want them to get to know you means you are mature and have a head on your shoulder. I would say to work on your own life, pursuing your goals and meet guys through the things you like to do.
I can say this, since I am an older man who is not trying to hit on you, that you are very attractive, and you sound intelligent and mature. If you keep your head about you, and hold out for a guy that is worth it, you should do well. I believe that you will do very well. Feel free to email me if you like.1