I find that a lot of guys that I'm interested in text me late at night asking me to "hang with them at their house". I know this basically means that they just want me to come over and hook up with them. I'm not really interested in a casual hook up right now so I'm wondering if I asked a guy like this to go on a date with me instead of hanging out at home, would they actually be interested and be willing to go on a date? Guys, when you want a girl to hook up with you, are you willing to put in the effort of dating them or will you lose interest once you find out they want to date you?
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Guys looking to hook up will "date" the girl is he is having fun hooking up. If a girl is easy to hook up with, most guys will simply use her for that and not consider her girlfriend material. IF you want a relationship with a guy that is based on more than sex, then get to know him and find out if he in interested i n you as a person before you have sex. Why do so many young women think that the have to put out in order to get dates? If you all made it a little harder, these guys would change their expectations and maybe show you a little more respect. don't get me wrong, young men are all horny, it is natural, but they do not HAVE to have sex in order to live!0