I work 8 to 5. When i get home i'am usualy tired and want to eat then go to sleep. For the past 2 months, Ever since then i tell my girlfriend "i'm tired, we can hangout later". Somedays when i have something else and have to cancel on my girlfriend. Last night i spent time with her and she thinks that i'am not interested in her anymore cause i don't spend time with her anymore. This makes me sad to hear that. I keep telling her that i'am busy and so on. Sometimes i hate to lie to her but in all honesty i just want to sleep sometmes.
Do you think i'am a bad boyfriend? what can i improve on?
Most Helpful Girl
It's understandable when a guy comes home from work and he is tired.
I get it!
We all have those days.
But when you do it constantly and you do not even make the slightest effort for that person, how can they not feel the way you described?
When you care about someone,
as hard as it may be sometimes you go that extra mile for it.
Because everything seems to be about the way "you" feel you are coming off as a selfish person to your significant other.
She cannot understand that.
In every relationship there has to be a healthy balance.
Have a day or two in the week... that is your day together (with her) no matter what.
Have the other days be your resting days.
You can't hang out with her every day... but you CAN make an effort to show her you care.
If someone is constantly voicing their opinion and the other person does nothing to change... of course she will feel that you don't care about her.3
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Most Helpful Guy
Be less tired. Come on man, I go to work at 6 in the morning and get home at 4. I have time to do lots of stuff, and I am never too tired to spend time with someone who's company I enjoy. And i worknin a warehouse so im moving around all day. Can't you just talk with her or do something simple?0