But im not physically attracted to her.. I really enjoy being around her and I've taken her on a few dates... She seems to like everything about me, and i dont want to hurt her. So I leave her now so it doesn't hurt as much, or I stick it out and hopfully i can get over my shallowness?
- Leave her now.Vote A
- Wait it out.Vote B
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Dude, What you just described is a "FRIEND"
Someone you enjoy spending time around but you don't see in a romantic light
I'm not saying you're wrong for trying to wait and see what happens.
I'm just saying that if you've been friends with a person for X amount of years or months and feelings didn't develop naturally over time it probably won't happen
If you've been on X amount of dates on top of X amount of time spent being friends with them and nothing has changed for, it probably never will
Sometimes a friend catches feelings for the others and the feeling isn't neutral. That doesn't make you shallow , nor should you be guilted into staying.
You'll probably do more damage to the friendship by staying longer when you feel nothing vs ending it now.0