after 3 months of texting and talking, how would you react? Run away or stay around?
Most Helpful Girl
I would stay. I wouldn't fuck with someone's feelings. Running away gives the impression that you are a coward and it shows you are afraid to confront your own feelings. Not a charming characteristic if you ask me. Plus who wants to be with a person who bails? When times get rough and you need someone to lean on, do you honestly think someone who runs from fears and feelings, will be your rock when you need them? I highly doubt it! This only shows that when things get tough for that particular individual, and they feel overwhelmed, they become unavail. Again who wants that? That shows no stability as well as no balls👍1
Most Helpful Guy
Right on the first date is a bit hasty hmm.. Even if you'd been talking on the phone there's still many things that need getting adjusted to when meeting in real life.
Seems a bit desperate. I wouldn't run away, but it'll be awkward... and probably kill any momentum we had going before that.0