Im always brutally honest I can't help it.
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I think. You best sit her down -ALONE- I can't stress enough on alone. And talk about it. Tell her.
People usually don't want to listen and go "I just want him/her to love me the way I am." I am sorry, but if you're an asshole, chances are people won't love you.
Men judge women on their personality and looks.
Women judge men on their personality, looks and career choice.
For the sake of this simple explanation, let's give a score out of 10. Women get /5 for personality and /5 for looks. Men get /4 for personality /3 for career and /3 for looks.
Say I see a woman that's a 4/5 in personality and 4/5 in looks, so an 8. I am a 2/4 in personality, 2/3 in career and 1/3 in looks. I am a 5/10 and she's an 8/10. She won't look at me because she knows she can do better. It works the same way vice versa. If she's 100 pounds fatter... chances are she's a 0/5 in looks or a 1/5. If her personality is 4/5 and her looks a 1/5 and she's running after guys that are 7 or 8 , they won't look at her ever.
You may not notice, but every one you've ever known does this. Even if they claim they don't. It's done on a subconcious primitive level. In a way, it is survival of the fittest (no pun intended). Any one who tells you otherwise is delusional. People think now a days they can just sit on their ass all day and they'll get exactly what they want. Well it doesn't work that way. You gotta work on yourself to get what you want in return.
Sugar coat what I said and feed it to her.0