I don't think I'd even expect a guy to know why he wants if he's just asking me out on a date. But I asked a guy out and he wanted to know what I wanted. I don't understand why he'd ask me that , or why he need to know
, or why he can't just answer at all.
Like if he likes me shouldn't he want to hang out and figure it out from there? And if he doesn't like me shouldn't he just say no and let me move on?
- Yes. I have to know what they are asking. As friends or more. Before I'll give an answer.22% (2)0% (0)22% (2)Vote
- No. I just need to know if I like him/ her. I'll answer based on that and take it from there.67% (6)0% (0)67% (6)Vote
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Oh it's really simple. He believes you are out of his league. He doesn't believe that he has anything worth having for a woman like you. This is not a new feeling. He has been liking you for a while but couldn't muster up enough courage to ask you out. Over time, he got disappointed and believe there are better guys out there for you. So you asking him out must have some motive because you are too perfect to like a guy like him.
Or he does have something valuable like a butt load of money and thinking you are a gold digger.0
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