I always end up being attracted to guys who are on the shyer, more reserved side. This can be really hard because I've always been told I'm very intimating and I can be hard to read while also being very shy. How can I be more approachable to the shy guys I'm attracted to?
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If you are attracted to shy guys, then learn how to communicate with them. a lot of times, if you are too bold, they get scared, so maybe a softer approach is needed. If you would really want to get to know a guy, but he is very shy, then approach him as a friend and go slow. There are plenty of women's books and magazines that talk about how to approach shy guys. Now, sometimes shy guys have issues that make them a little harder to live with (sometimes), so I would say this - why is it you are attracted to shy guys? Is it because you like being a little in control? (I am not being critical, just asking). You will find men are like everything else in life - if you see something or someone you want, then you need to find a way of getting it. Whether a job or a man. the same holds true for men trying to date women. I have seen men that some women would never give a second glance to, but the men's persistence in being friendly, and letting her know that he is interested often paid off - even if the girl was dating someone else. All is fair in love and war, and if love and war are somewhat equal, you need to learn strategies.0