Ok I'm 24, and I'm a pretty normal guy. I'm good with people and making friends, I'm a mix of introvert and extrovert. I'm not fat, I work out routinely and keep in decent shape. I keep my haircut fresh and my clothes fit and clean.
All of that is not enough for basically any girl... in my 7 years or so of searching and trying to find a girl, I haven't found a single one... what the fuck?
Is dating even real?
Most Helpful Girl
Your standards are high yourself since you said for 7 years you keep on searching.
Basically people date to find someone that matches with them for a long term relationship and the chances of compatibility can be good or not. The circumstances can also be a factor. Girl's have standards bec if not the guy being "special" loses it's sense. Also, standards set what type of people you wanted to be who the girl thinks matches her pace in life and interests.
So keep on finding her~ Girls dream to find their "right" guy too! :)0
Most Helpful Guy
Trust me all girls don't have high standards. I attract girls pretty easily without doing much of nothing. Sometimes I show my best side. Show of the nice bod, the charming personality, the sensuality/romanticness, the potential for big money as well as a great home life and other times I'm a total shit bag. Walk around in frumpy clothes don't shave, sometimes don't shower, cuss and drink and yell and even make sexist jokes. Really doesn't make a difference. Girls have a list of things they think they want but that's not what they go for. Checking off that list really isn't that satisfying. Girls go for guys they like point blank period. Why they like them is extremely hard to explain. I've had girls that think I'm perfect for them when every quality they list off is wrong about me. And girls who sat next to me completely uninterested looking for someone exactly like me. I remember one girl that was into me and swore I was a genius when in reality I was just depressed and afraid of making eye contact with anyone. One girl, an uber straight edge Christian, thought I was perfect and never once questioned my irreligious beliefs or how much I liked tattoos pot and porn at the time. You just gotta remember girls never like you they like who they think you are. They might be right about you but either way you shouldn't care. Be you. Enjoy your life. Be as authentic as possible and if a girl shows up that likes you and you like her try to have fun with her and keep her happy. Nothing else you can do.2