Soo I'm 17 and the age of consent where I live is 16. I have romantic feelings for my former boss who is 33 and he has a girlfriend and a kid. Now that I'm saying it makes me not want to engage anything anymore... I really love this guys personality and over all we have a great friendship he's up there as one of the main people I go to for advice about life. He got me into a lot of awesome stuff I never thought I'd like but once I tried it I started to keep doing it; knive collecting, video games, weaponry, and just being a bad ass plain and simple. When I was working with him I'd say our relationship was mostly sexual tension and when I moved on from the job it turned into a genuine friendship. I have always had feelings for him and I would never say anything because I thought that it was just a crush and it'd go away. I moved cities and we still text here and there he doesn't really call me or try to talk to me really. But since I moved we've texted and talked about the relationship and I told him how I felt and I said that I'd probably dig casual sex if I were to visit and he said he'd ruin me for every other man.. I sent him partial nudes nothing full on and it was good for awhile he talked about wanting to Skype me and send me this knife sheath in the mail. I don't know I still think about him so much and I want to wait and see if later on in my life we can explore the options of being more but not when he lives so far and obviously has feelings for someone else. I feel like he's just a very bad guy and if he was a good guy he wouldve handled everything differently, am I completely naive and retarded or what?
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I don't think you should continue with him.0